1 00:00:05,449 --> 00:00:09,550 Previously on The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills. Hi, how are you? 2 00:00:10,370 --> 00:00:13,970 That's so funny. That's really good. We all got the memo. 3 00:00:14,230 --> 00:00:18,570 I'm best known for my best -selling book, Riches, which has given me the 4 00:00:18,570 --> 00:00:20,030 nickname The Money Queen. 5 00:00:20,390 --> 00:00:23,130 My marriage has been eradicated from the Catholic Church. 6 00:00:23,530 --> 00:00:25,670 The letter came to Sutton Brown. 7 00:00:25,990 --> 00:00:27,950 Oh. Have you gone on any dates? 8 00:00:29,230 --> 00:00:30,290 Are you dating now? 9 00:00:30,510 --> 00:00:34,010 I'm not. I just haven't been leaving my house. Girl, wait! 10 00:00:34,380 --> 00:00:39,280 The truth about if Kyle is seeing somebody, it's like, I'm sorry, are we 11 00:00:39,280 --> 00:00:39,999 or not? 12 00:00:40,000 --> 00:00:43,900 I don't feel like being asked all the time about my private life. I was seeing 13 00:00:43,900 --> 00:00:45,880 someone who, unfortunately, I'm single now. 14 00:00:46,120 --> 00:00:52,400 Since separating from Mo, I was at a very vulnerable place in my life, and I 15 00:00:52,400 --> 00:00:54,240 felt hard for this person. 16 00:00:54,680 --> 00:00:59,000 If it was only me, I would give all the answers they want. Yeah, it's not just 17 00:00:59,000 --> 00:01:00,000 about you. 18 00:01:02,540 --> 00:01:06,800 In this town, stars come and go, but diamonds last forever. 19 00:01:07,960 --> 00:01:12,040 I'd die for fashion, but now I'm living for me. 20 00:01:12,600 --> 00:01:17,020 I turn ambition into an art form, and I am the masterpiece. 21 00:01:17,780 --> 00:01:22,040 I might live on a main road, but I definitely bring main character energy. 22 00:01:22,480 --> 00:01:23,980 I didn't marry into money. 23 00:01:24,280 --> 00:01:26,080 I manifested it. 24 00:01:28,100 --> 00:01:29,380 Survival isn't my story. 25 00:01:29,880 --> 00:01:31,200 It's my superpower. 26 00:01:33,169 --> 00:01:37,250 I'm unfiltered, unbothered, and finally, unburdened. 27 00:01:49,330 --> 00:01:51,330 Nico! Are we ready? 28 00:01:51,630 --> 00:01:52,630 Thank you! 29 00:01:53,030 --> 00:01:56,370 I'm ready. I'm in my matchmaking bag. I know, you got the roses. 30 00:01:56,610 --> 00:01:59,630 I feel like I'm like the hostess of The Bachelorette. 31 00:01:59,830 --> 00:02:01,730 And what are the men called? The bachelors? 32 00:02:03,120 --> 00:02:05,600 Yes. That's what single men are called. I've never seen The Bachelorette. 33 00:02:06,640 --> 00:02:08,300 I've come to a striking realization. 34 00:02:08,820 --> 00:02:13,760 Almost everybody is single in this friend group. These girls are going 35 00:02:13,760 --> 00:02:17,220 it. We've got our questions. I think Dorita's going to be the most 36 00:02:17,780 --> 00:02:21,380 Erica, too. No, Erica might scare them. And secretly, I think Kyle is going to 37 00:02:21,380 --> 00:02:22,159 be very nervous. 38 00:02:22,160 --> 00:02:26,240 I want all the girls to come out and enjoy themselves. But I think this might 39 00:02:26,240 --> 00:02:30,060 an opportunity for Kyle to really let her hair down. Lurt a little. I want to 40 00:02:30,060 --> 00:02:31,060 see that side of her. 41 00:02:31,190 --> 00:02:33,830 I think the guys are already, like, comparing their resumes. 42 00:02:34,230 --> 00:02:35,950 Look at them. Good to see you. Cheers. 43 00:02:36,230 --> 00:02:37,089 Cheers, fellas. 44 00:02:37,090 --> 00:02:38,590 Great to be here with you. 45 00:02:39,050 --> 00:02:41,390 Do you not have your cocktails yet? Sorry, bad timing. 46 00:02:41,830 --> 00:02:46,550 I went through my contact list and found eligible bachelors that match the 47 00:02:46,550 --> 00:02:47,630 interests of my friends. 48 00:02:47,830 --> 00:02:51,530 We are going to describe, like, keywords, okay? 49 00:02:51,890 --> 00:02:53,350 Protector. Chivalrous. 50 00:02:53,610 --> 00:02:54,730 Safe. Sexy. 51 00:02:55,230 --> 00:02:56,810 Sexy? What does that mean? 52 00:02:57,030 --> 00:03:00,030 Someone who likes sex, and you can tell by looking at them. Oh, what? 53 00:03:00,320 --> 00:03:02,040 I have done my research. 54 00:03:02,260 --> 00:03:03,580 I mean, this is a pretty good group. 55 00:03:03,840 --> 00:03:04,840 They look good, too. 56 00:03:05,420 --> 00:03:07,360 Oh, I'm so glad everybody's here. 57 00:03:07,600 --> 00:03:08,600 Hi, 58 00:03:08,720 --> 00:03:10,960 so nice to see you. Thank you for coming. 59 00:03:11,220 --> 00:03:12,400 Hi, how are you? 60 00:03:12,720 --> 00:03:15,260 Hello. Oh, good to see you. 61 00:03:15,740 --> 00:03:16,920 Now, I'll tell you a secret. 62 00:03:17,540 --> 00:03:18,960 These ladies are very nervous. 63 00:03:19,200 --> 00:03:22,200 I can't tell you the group chat with the like, what should I wear? 64 00:03:22,520 --> 00:03:23,520 What should I say? 65 00:03:23,700 --> 00:03:24,700 What am I going to do? 66 00:03:27,560 --> 00:03:31,400 It would be really great if one or all of them found true love tonight. And 67 00:03:31,400 --> 00:03:35,900 if it doesn't happen, I'm still excited for them to flirt a little bit. Because 68 00:03:35,900 --> 00:03:40,600 maybe it'll loosen up the old wires that aren't necessarily clicking all the 69 00:03:40,600 --> 00:03:42,560 way. They should be nervous. We are intense. 70 00:03:42,980 --> 00:03:45,060 Look, you better cut it out, okay? 71 00:03:45,720 --> 00:03:46,720 Give them a break. 72 00:03:51,100 --> 00:03:53,640 I want to look like a normal human being. 73 00:03:54,080 --> 00:03:55,820 Right? Because, you know, men get scared. 74 00:03:56,460 --> 00:04:02,520 Yeah. See? I agree. For the face, I think that we keep it young, 75 00:04:02,520 --> 00:04:07,900 but not. Could give you a blowjob in the alley, but probably won't. 76 00:04:14,520 --> 00:04:16,540 Okay, we have to make me look very pretty. 77 00:04:17,040 --> 00:04:19,079 We're going to make you look extra snatched. 78 00:04:27,680 --> 00:04:29,700 I think I need a Coca -Cola. 79 00:04:30,540 --> 00:04:36,960 I am going to struggle tonight. 80 00:04:45,380 --> 00:04:48,020 I need a beverage now. Where are these ladies? 81 00:04:57,420 --> 00:05:00,640 Why are you giggling already? I know. I feel really weird. That might feel 82 00:05:00,640 --> 00:05:02,400 weird. I don't know. 83 00:05:02,820 --> 00:05:05,260 How about have a seat right there? Because they are over there. 84 00:05:05,500 --> 00:05:06,760 Oh, no. I know. 85 00:05:11,420 --> 00:05:13,980 If you make me take my shoes off. No, no, no. You don't have to. 86 00:05:14,200 --> 00:05:19,300 This is the first time. I don't know what to make of Kyle's single state. Is 87 00:05:19,300 --> 00:05:23,260 single because she has accepted her separation from Moe? For somebody who's 88 00:05:23,260 --> 00:05:24,900 nervous, you certainly don't look it. 89 00:05:25,230 --> 00:05:28,530 Is he single because he isn't dating anyone at all? 90 00:05:28,730 --> 00:05:32,690 Why did you bring the most expensive bag? See, this is clearly signaling your 91 00:05:32,690 --> 00:05:33,489 high maintenance. 92 00:05:33,490 --> 00:05:36,430 Oh, my. Don't mess with me. Don't. 93 00:05:41,570 --> 00:05:44,350 Wow. You are a goddess. 94 00:05:45,270 --> 00:05:47,690 We all look like we're going to a funeral, you guys. 95 00:05:53,400 --> 00:05:55,460 No, she is not. Oh, my God. 96 00:05:56,020 --> 00:05:57,020 Everybody's wearing black. 97 00:05:57,160 --> 00:05:58,280 Everybody's wearing black. 98 00:05:58,500 --> 00:05:59,640 Hello, beautiful. 99 00:06:00,400 --> 00:06:01,400 Oh, my gosh. 100 00:06:02,740 --> 00:06:04,900 Everybody's wearing black. Let's see what Sutton has on. Hi. 101 00:06:05,440 --> 00:06:07,300 Is that Sutton? Oh, my God. 102 00:06:08,360 --> 00:06:11,660 The key is you can't look like you tried too hard because that reads desperate 103 00:06:11,660 --> 00:06:12,279 and thirsty. 104 00:06:12,280 --> 00:06:14,080 Don't look like you spent three hours getting dressed. 105 00:06:14,440 --> 00:06:18,840 Like, oh, I just threw this on. I look like the maid that's going to. 106 00:06:19,290 --> 00:06:22,570 Bend over and get it. I do think if you wear a little black dress on a first 107 00:06:22,570 --> 00:06:24,230 date, you're saying I want to have sex with you. 108 00:06:25,390 --> 00:06:27,270 Oh, my God. She's wearing black. 109 00:06:28,270 --> 00:06:31,790 Everybody's in black. I cannot even believe you. Do we look like we're going 110 00:06:31,790 --> 00:06:36,370 a funeral? That's what I just said. Our subconscious is talking right now. 111 00:06:37,590 --> 00:06:41,210 We do not look like a group of women that are looking to find a date. We're 112 00:06:41,210 --> 00:06:44,610 dressed in black like we just came from some sort of witch convention. 113 00:06:44,970 --> 00:06:47,850 I think it just says where we all are in our lives is black. 114 00:06:48,360 --> 00:06:50,500 It's a black cloud over all of us. 115 00:06:51,100 --> 00:06:53,520 We have to get out of our heads. 116 00:06:53,720 --> 00:06:57,080 She happens to know that they're all good guys. They're all successful. 117 00:06:57,440 --> 00:06:58,500 They're all very nice. 118 00:06:58,720 --> 00:07:00,260 Don't ask for any dick pics. 119 00:07:00,920 --> 00:07:03,220 What? That is horrible. 120 00:07:03,620 --> 00:07:04,620 How dare you? 121 00:07:04,980 --> 00:07:07,520 I've gotten enough of those dick pics in my DM. 122 00:07:07,860 --> 00:07:11,560 Do they really think you're going to be like, oh, my God, that's so great. Hi. 123 00:07:12,880 --> 00:07:14,200 Can we go say hi to them? 124 00:07:15,380 --> 00:07:16,380 Let's go. 125 00:07:16,720 --> 00:07:17,720 Let's go, girls. 126 00:07:18,040 --> 00:07:19,040 Let's go. 127 00:07:20,060 --> 00:07:23,440 I'm rallying the troops. Are you taking your bag? I'm wearing my sunglasses. 128 00:07:23,940 --> 00:07:24,279 Oh, that's so rude. 129 00:07:24,280 --> 00:07:25,340 Is that rude? 130 00:07:25,720 --> 00:07:26,679 No. Yes. 131 00:07:26,680 --> 00:07:29,840 It's rude. But they're Rachel's old glasses. Hello, everyone. 132 00:07:30,940 --> 00:07:32,140 Hi. Okay. 133 00:07:32,440 --> 00:07:36,700 Good job, Dorit. Hi, guys. I'm so proud of her. I'm Dorit. Hi, Ben. Pleasure. 134 00:07:36,860 --> 00:07:38,440 Hey, Dorit. I'm Chase. Nice to meet you. 135 00:07:39,460 --> 00:07:40,460 What happened? 136 00:07:40,480 --> 00:07:45,600 Let's go to Jack in the Box. I didn't realize how many of these women... 137 00:07:45,820 --> 00:07:49,720 are so socially awkward. Come on. Oh, I hate this. 138 00:07:50,260 --> 00:07:51,219 Just kidding. Yes. 139 00:07:51,220 --> 00:07:52,660 Kyle. Erica. 140 00:07:53,040 --> 00:07:54,800 Cheers. Weird Tuesday. 141 00:07:55,300 --> 00:07:59,320 Sutton. Okay, well, I knew Sutton was. It's itching because I have neuropathy. 142 00:08:00,010 --> 00:08:01,110 It's going to bother me. 143 00:08:01,350 --> 00:08:02,750 Yeah. Hey. Rick. 144 00:08:03,070 --> 00:08:04,070 Greg. Nice to meet you. 145 00:08:04,330 --> 00:08:07,470 Rick. Nice to meet you. Hi. Hi. Rachel. 146 00:08:07,870 --> 00:08:08,870 Erica. Hi. 147 00:08:09,170 --> 00:08:11,610 Hi. How are you? Nice to meet you. How are you doing? 148 00:08:12,010 --> 00:08:13,010 I said. Hi. 149 00:08:13,170 --> 00:08:15,830 What was your name? Rachel. Hi, Rachel. Nice to meet you. Nice to meet you, too. 150 00:08:16,010 --> 00:08:17,430 Rachel. Rachel. Nice to meet you. 151 00:08:17,830 --> 00:08:20,270 Wait, does this feel like a receiving line, you guys? 152 00:08:20,730 --> 00:08:24,930 Fun fact. I actually won the biggest flirt award when I was six years old in 153 00:08:24,930 --> 00:08:26,150 camp. A ribbon and everything. 154 00:08:26,880 --> 00:08:27,880 Where is your accent? 155 00:08:27,920 --> 00:08:32,280 Australian. Yeah, accent has two girls already. I get it. Always, always works, 156 00:08:32,340 --> 00:08:37,559 doesn't it? They asked us to choose a husband to marry on our campus. 157 00:08:37,919 --> 00:08:38,940 And you know who I picked? 158 00:08:39,159 --> 00:08:40,559 My 18 -year -old counselor. 159 00:08:41,140 --> 00:08:42,140 Do you have a drink? 160 00:08:42,159 --> 00:08:45,040 No, but I think I need one. Oh, my God, I feel so awkward. Hold on one second. 161 00:08:45,260 --> 00:08:46,600 I got to go to the bar. 162 00:08:46,820 --> 00:08:50,750 What? I've never seen this side of Erica before. Where's a woman who is twirling 163 00:08:50,750 --> 00:08:54,430 around on stage, making people nervous when she walks in the room? 164 00:08:54,690 --> 00:08:56,390 Probably got a whips and chains somewhere. 165 00:08:56,750 --> 00:08:57,750 Where is she? 166 00:08:57,830 --> 00:08:58,830 Can I have a cocktail? 167 00:08:59,090 --> 00:09:00,090 Yes. I don't know. 168 00:09:00,110 --> 00:09:01,190 Do you want to take a shot? 169 00:09:01,430 --> 00:09:02,430 Do you want to take a shot? 170 00:09:02,490 --> 00:09:03,530 No, I don't need a shot. 171 00:09:03,910 --> 00:09:07,930 Erica Jane can do anything. She can talk to anybody, flits on stage, run around 172 00:09:07,930 --> 00:09:09,410 in a costume. But Erica? 173 00:09:10,320 --> 00:09:11,960 is very awkward. 174 00:09:12,280 --> 00:09:14,460 I thought you had like some icebreaker activity. 175 00:09:14,700 --> 00:09:17,920 I do. But we lost one. I know, we lost one. Or we could just let it do it the 176 00:09:17,920 --> 00:09:19,820 old -fashioned way. We lost somebody? Yes. 177 00:09:20,140 --> 00:09:21,140 How long have you been single? 178 00:09:21,360 --> 00:09:22,700 Like a week. No, I'm kidding. 179 00:09:22,980 --> 00:09:27,480 A year. About four hours? Yeah. Okay, that's long enough for me. No. Well, I 180 00:09:27,480 --> 00:09:28,480 guess a year. 181 00:09:29,020 --> 00:09:34,960 I'm not going to suggest that I'm emotionally in the best place to date 182 00:09:34,960 --> 00:09:39,500 now. I've never heard a lemon referred to as the carcass when it's done. 183 00:09:39,880 --> 00:09:42,920 Listen, it's just a drink that I like. It's clean. 184 00:09:43,240 --> 00:09:44,179 It's easy. 185 00:09:44,180 --> 00:09:45,180 Is that how you would describe yourself? 186 00:09:46,860 --> 00:09:47,860 Not easy. 187 00:09:47,940 --> 00:09:48,940 I'm definitely not easy. 188 00:09:49,380 --> 00:09:51,340 I mean, but she is. 189 00:09:51,700 --> 00:09:53,520 Make sure you tell her I told you. I will. 190 00:09:53,980 --> 00:09:58,460 I'm a little out of practice, but that doesn't mean it's gone. I know I'm a 191 00:09:58,460 --> 00:09:59,460 flirt. 192 00:10:00,670 --> 00:10:03,390 Yeah, it's working, right? Oh, good. I got everybody's attention. 193 00:10:03,710 --> 00:10:04,649 Well, welcome. 194 00:10:04,650 --> 00:10:07,730 I'm so glad everybody was able to come over. So welcome. 195 00:10:07,990 --> 00:10:08,849 Cheers to you. 196 00:10:08,850 --> 00:10:09,850 Cheers. Yes. 197 00:10:10,150 --> 00:10:13,690 So we have some stations where the ladies will sit. 198 00:10:13,990 --> 00:10:17,510 Some questions that I've written, but you are free to ask your own questions. 199 00:10:17,870 --> 00:10:20,450 And then we'll keep going around and around until everybody's met everybody. 200 00:10:20,830 --> 00:10:25,930 I'm game. Yes. Okay, very good. Kyle, you can sit here. Okay. Erica, you're 201 00:10:25,930 --> 00:10:26,930 going to go inside. 202 00:10:27,530 --> 00:10:28,910 Sutton, you're going inside too. 203 00:10:29,310 --> 00:10:33,230 I've never done anything like this. I'd be more comfortable, like, standing on 204 00:10:33,230 --> 00:10:37,830 stage with no clothes. I would like to gouge out my own eyeballs, but I'm going 205 00:10:37,830 --> 00:10:39,150 to go with a smile on my face. 206 00:10:41,630 --> 00:10:43,050 Let me start my clock. 207 00:10:43,330 --> 00:10:44,330 Okay, here we go. 208 00:10:46,390 --> 00:10:47,470 Um, hey? 209 00:10:47,990 --> 00:10:48,990 Oh. 210 00:10:50,610 --> 00:10:56,390 Let me start my clock. 211 00:10:56,690 --> 00:10:58,490 Okay, here we go. I hear the noise. 212 00:10:59,959 --> 00:11:00,959 Well, yeah. 213 00:11:01,360 --> 00:11:04,640 That was a little... So you were a lawyer, too? 214 00:11:04,920 --> 00:11:08,800 I was, but I'm still active with the bar, but I'm not pregnant. Thank God. 215 00:11:08,800 --> 00:11:11,780 do you do for fun? No, I don't think I've had that in a very long time, so 216 00:11:11,780 --> 00:11:14,300 almost forgot. You're such a sexy dress. How could you not have fun? 217 00:11:14,520 --> 00:11:17,180 Well, thank you. Are you more of a dominant or a submissive? 218 00:11:17,500 --> 00:11:19,900 I've learned to be a bit more dominant in life. 219 00:11:21,300 --> 00:11:22,800 I think the question means sexually. 220 00:11:23,200 --> 00:11:24,200 Oh. 221 00:11:25,060 --> 00:11:26,360 I've been on a lot of bad dates. 222 00:11:26,590 --> 00:11:30,070 And, you know, I did go on that one date. It was just all about the mother. 223 00:11:30,590 --> 00:11:34,690 My mom still is in the house, but I've been working from home, so I can still 224 00:11:34,690 --> 00:11:39,990 mom. I'm the only guy whose mother tried to pull the what happens in Vegas stays 225 00:11:39,990 --> 00:11:40,990 in Vegas rule. 226 00:11:41,110 --> 00:11:42,110 Oh. 227 00:11:42,250 --> 00:11:45,170 I kind of have this fearless factor when it comes to dating. 228 00:11:45,670 --> 00:11:47,710 So show me what you got. Let's do this. 229 00:11:47,930 --> 00:11:50,810 I started Comic -Con, so if you're ever into superheroes... 230 00:11:51,100 --> 00:11:52,100 No. Oh. 231 00:11:52,420 --> 00:11:55,640 I can't. I did a lot not in Los Angeles. Why is that? 232 00:11:56,040 --> 00:11:57,040 Girls here are pretty bad. 233 00:11:58,260 --> 00:12:00,600 Where do you live? You live on this side? 234 00:12:01,020 --> 00:12:03,080 I think we're on the west side, right? 235 00:12:03,320 --> 00:12:04,800 I think we're on the east side now. 236 00:12:05,100 --> 00:12:08,460 Okay, so I don't know what side I live on. 237 00:12:09,060 --> 00:12:10,900 Oh. I live in the valley. 238 00:12:11,200 --> 00:12:12,980 Okay. Do you know where that is? That way. 239 00:12:14,680 --> 00:12:16,060 Okay, who do you think is amazing? 240 00:12:16,580 --> 00:12:19,140 Maybe like Led Zeppelin on the Rolling Stones and that's like it. I don't know. 241 00:12:19,240 --> 00:12:19,879 Chris Martin? 242 00:12:19,880 --> 00:12:20,880 What's up? 243 00:12:21,479 --> 00:12:22,479 Coldplay sucks. 244 00:12:22,560 --> 00:12:25,480 What? Coldplay sucks, dude. White women love Coldplay. 245 00:12:25,700 --> 00:12:30,020 What? When I was younger, I was always in love with a guy that I shouldn't be 246 00:12:30,020 --> 00:12:31,960 love with. What I've realized is I'm still her. 247 00:12:34,380 --> 00:12:39,640 I am still her. I am still the girl that is attracted to a very certain kind of 248 00:12:39,640 --> 00:12:45,220 person. I'm not the guy that probably everybody wants to set me up with. Oh, 249 00:12:45,220 --> 00:12:48,840 God. This is so much harder than I thought. It is? Yes. Is it a little 250 00:12:48,840 --> 00:12:49,840 for you? It's so stressful. 251 00:12:50,340 --> 00:12:53,860 I'm a real estate agent, by the way. My husband would die right now while I'm 252 00:12:53,860 --> 00:12:54,860 separated. 253 00:12:55,080 --> 00:12:59,880 We made a deal. I'm sure you did. I honestly cannot get away from Mel. 254 00:13:00,160 --> 00:13:03,600 I mean, I wouldn't be surprised if he was here tonight as one of the 255 00:13:03,960 --> 00:13:04,960 I mean, he does good deals. 256 00:13:05,320 --> 00:13:09,280 Have you been married? I married a stranger in Las Vegas for a day. It was 257 00:13:09,280 --> 00:13:09,859 bucket list. 258 00:13:09,860 --> 00:13:12,960 I was just going to say it was a bucket list. It was a bucket list. Because it's 259 00:13:12,960 --> 00:13:14,160 completely legal in your country. 260 00:13:15,560 --> 00:13:16,499 You get married. 261 00:13:16,500 --> 00:13:21,860 When I turn the charm on, I'm not the girl that's like, oh, wow. 262 00:13:22,180 --> 00:13:24,240 Oh, you look good. Have you been working out? 263 00:13:24,500 --> 00:13:26,640 I'm more of the, it's in the eyes. 264 00:13:27,680 --> 00:13:29,660 Maybe a little hair flip. 265 00:13:30,340 --> 00:13:33,140 Anyway, so, productive. 266 00:13:34,640 --> 00:13:35,800 I've been asking the guys. 267 00:13:36,120 --> 00:13:37,980 Everybody loves Dorit. 268 00:13:38,200 --> 00:13:41,860 Look at them right now. I have to tell you. Thank you, my darling. 269 00:13:42,100 --> 00:13:43,600 But I think everybody likes Sebastian. 270 00:13:44,439 --> 00:13:45,439 Yeah, I like Sebastian. 271 00:13:45,860 --> 00:13:49,480 Yes, everybody likes Sebastian. Go back. But look at them. This is a match made. 272 00:13:49,860 --> 00:13:52,280 They both have accents. That's how I knew it was going to work. 273 00:13:52,540 --> 00:13:53,760 People will say I'm loquacious. 274 00:13:54,400 --> 00:13:55,400 What a word. 275 00:13:55,500 --> 00:13:58,120 Were you like a big comic fan as a child? Yeah, I grew up collecting sports 276 00:13:58,120 --> 00:14:01,140 cards and comic books as a kid. I love sports cards. What kind of sports cards 277 00:14:01,140 --> 00:14:02,420 are we talking about? Baseball, basketball. 278 00:14:02,800 --> 00:14:04,260 Oh, cars. Oh, yeah. 279 00:14:04,560 --> 00:14:05,820 C -A -R -D -F. Yeah. 280 00:14:06,960 --> 00:14:08,080 I have zero game. 281 00:14:08,620 --> 00:14:11,460 I can't small talk. I don't know how to do it. 282 00:14:12,000 --> 00:14:13,240 Wait, you're in the law, right? 283 00:14:13,920 --> 00:14:15,980 Yeah, but I do other things too. You're a slimy weasel. 284 00:14:16,680 --> 00:14:18,780 Sutton has a lot more game than I do. 285 00:14:19,040 --> 00:14:22,360 Soft and feminine and southern and, you know, ha. 286 00:14:23,280 --> 00:14:27,200 Your accent's great. Just a hint of Georgia. But it's more if I go home or 287 00:14:27,200 --> 00:14:30,520 talk to my mother too long. Listen, when I'm on the phone with my family back 288 00:14:30,520 --> 00:14:33,960 home, New York comes right out. It'll just come right back. I've been 289 00:14:33,960 --> 00:14:36,040 to work in baseball. I've represented a bunch of players. 290 00:14:36,300 --> 00:14:38,900 My apologies. You are halfway through your conversation. 291 00:14:39,240 --> 00:14:43,120 Oh, okay, ma 'am. Time is flying by. I know, when you're having fun. 292 00:14:43,560 --> 00:14:47,620 I like Rick. He is easy to talk to. He seems interested in me. 293 00:14:47,900 --> 00:14:49,540 He has potential, this Rick. 294 00:14:49,840 --> 00:14:53,140 Our time is up. Okay. Now, we're all going to get back together. 295 00:14:53,360 --> 00:14:55,080 Sure. Okay. So we can go back in here. 296 00:14:55,340 --> 00:14:56,600 Okay, what's happening, you guys? 297 00:14:56,820 --> 00:15:01,000 Well, everybody, I would like to say goodnight to our gentlemen. 298 00:15:01,400 --> 00:15:02,400 Goodnight, guys. 299 00:15:04,160 --> 00:15:05,680 It was nice meeting all y 'all. 300 00:15:06,040 --> 00:15:07,040 Wait, wait, this is me. 301 00:15:07,220 --> 00:15:11,620 All right, done. Let me know. All right, I'll let you know. It's in your court. 302 00:15:12,720 --> 00:15:14,420 Still got it, obviously. 303 00:15:15,260 --> 00:15:19,420 I love both, and there's nothing I won't do for her or with her. I need fire 304 00:15:19,420 --> 00:15:24,820 pit. But, like, I knew full well there was 0 % chance I was meeting a guy at a 305 00:15:24,820 --> 00:15:25,820 speed dating event. 306 00:15:25,900 --> 00:15:30,720 Jory, was that your first, like, meet new guys moment? And I feel like you did 307 00:15:30,720 --> 00:15:34,300 great. Oh, I feel like you were, like, by the way, I feel like you were fully 308 00:15:34,300 --> 00:15:35,980 rolling. You were doing great, right? 309 00:15:36,500 --> 00:15:38,040 Tonight was a boost of confidence. 310 00:15:38,460 --> 00:15:39,820 It felt like... 311 00:15:40,140 --> 00:15:43,740 The feminine, flirty, fun Dorit was here. 312 00:15:44,320 --> 00:15:45,500 And it felt good. 313 00:15:45,960 --> 00:15:50,900 Who was our favorite guy? The Aussie guy was great. It was really fun. 314 00:15:51,100 --> 00:15:52,100 I liked Rick. 315 00:15:52,120 --> 00:15:54,780 Did he give you his car? Because he gave me his car. Okay. 316 00:15:56,380 --> 00:16:00,700 Okay. I'm just saying, your attorney husband didn't work out so well. 317 00:16:03,140 --> 00:16:05,580 Coming up. 318 00:16:05,880 --> 00:16:10,040 In order to be friends, I want to know the information so that I can also be 319 00:16:10,040 --> 00:16:12,320 helpful. Why don't you ask what you really want to ask? 320 00:16:20,640 --> 00:16:23,480 Okay, okay. Who is our favorite guy? I like Rick. 321 00:16:23,760 --> 00:16:26,100 Did he give you his card? Because he gave me. Okay. 322 00:16:26,320 --> 00:16:28,640 Your attorney husband didn't work out so well. 323 00:16:32,270 --> 00:16:35,470 I'm about to do something really important. She's going to throw it in 324 00:16:35,610 --> 00:16:40,590 No. In the spirit of kindness and being like a good friend, truthfully, this is 325 00:16:40,590 --> 00:16:41,189 for you. 326 00:16:41,190 --> 00:16:42,190 Whoa. 327 00:16:43,010 --> 00:16:46,910 It's taken a long time for Sutton and I to get to a good place. And Rick seems 328 00:16:46,910 --> 00:16:47,910 like a really nice guy. 329 00:16:48,210 --> 00:16:51,230 Yeah, Sutton, enjoy him. I'm going to give the lawyer thing a rest. 330 00:16:51,750 --> 00:16:52,750 Case is smooth. 331 00:16:53,910 --> 00:16:59,950 Kyle, do you feel that you are actively looking to meet someone? 332 00:17:01,199 --> 00:17:02,199 Of course not. 333 00:17:02,740 --> 00:17:03,740 I mean, I'm not. 334 00:17:03,940 --> 00:17:06,619 What do you mean, of course not? What do you mean, of course not? No, I'm not. I 335 00:17:06,619 --> 00:17:08,359 mean, you're not actively looking for anybody. 336 00:17:09,460 --> 00:17:10,579 I'm not three years in. 337 00:17:10,980 --> 00:17:13,000 I mean, like, is that what you want? 338 00:17:13,980 --> 00:17:18,819 I would be looking for a life partner. Like, I would want to get married again. 339 00:17:18,940 --> 00:17:20,200 You want to be married again? 340 00:17:20,420 --> 00:17:22,339 I think I would want to get married again. Really? 341 00:17:23,960 --> 00:17:26,280 Dorit, do you want to come talk with me for, like, five minutes? 342 00:17:27,079 --> 00:17:28,079 Pardon? 343 00:17:28,240 --> 00:17:30,440 Come here. Come talk with me for a minute. I want to talk to you. 344 00:17:30,980 --> 00:17:32,340 Oh, okay. Go ahead. 345 00:17:32,840 --> 00:17:36,560 I just want to catch up with you and how you're doing and PK and all of that. 346 00:17:37,140 --> 00:17:41,580 Sutton, do you want to sit here? Yeah. Is that okay? Have a seat. I was asking 347 00:17:41,580 --> 00:17:44,800 Doreen what's going on. I said I was just trying to check in on her and see 348 00:17:44,800 --> 00:17:45,800 the kids are. 349 00:17:45,920 --> 00:17:46,980 Did they go to Florida? 350 00:17:47,360 --> 00:17:49,900 My kids are supposed to go to Florida with their grandparents. 351 00:17:50,380 --> 00:17:55,240 And PK is now, I got a letter today from the lawyer saying that he's going to 352 00:17:55,240 --> 00:17:56,240 block it. 353 00:17:56,980 --> 00:17:58,140 They did go to Florida. 354 00:17:58,700 --> 00:17:59,940 So the kids are having a good time? 355 00:18:00,160 --> 00:18:04,180 They are having the greatest time ever. What are you doing now that they're not? 356 00:18:04,240 --> 00:18:05,219 Are you resting? 357 00:18:05,220 --> 00:18:07,380 The best thing that you can do is take care of yourself. 358 00:18:07,660 --> 00:18:11,960 Yes. You have to. I know. I have to. And you don't want to use it against you. 359 00:18:12,220 --> 00:18:13,420 You know what I mean? Exactly. 360 00:18:14,180 --> 00:18:16,120 That's, by the way, that's by design. 361 00:18:16,660 --> 00:18:20,620 Here's the thing. When you're going through a divorce, your state of mind is 362 00:18:20,620 --> 00:18:21,620 like a big deal. 363 00:18:21,860 --> 00:18:25,620 Anything and everything will be used against you to make you look. 364 00:18:26,620 --> 00:18:30,900 Not the best. So you have to be careful what you say, how you say it, who you 365 00:18:30,900 --> 00:18:34,020 say it to, where you're hanging out, who you're hanging out with, where you're 366 00:18:34,020 --> 00:18:34,919 spending money. 367 00:18:34,920 --> 00:18:37,560 And it's a long road. Yes. 368 00:18:38,120 --> 00:18:40,840 Dudes can get away with a hell of a lot more than mothers. 369 00:18:41,640 --> 00:18:46,480 The great news is this. You will come ashore, and you will survive this. Yeah, 370 00:18:46,480 --> 00:18:47,940 you will. And your children will, too. 371 00:18:48,440 --> 00:18:52,560 And all for the better, you know? You just have to get through it, and it 372 00:18:52,820 --> 00:18:53,860 and I'm really sorry. 373 00:18:54,580 --> 00:18:55,960 Yeah, it does suck. 374 00:18:56,430 --> 00:19:01,250 This is really nice to see a different side of Sutton. She's talking to me from 375 00:19:01,250 --> 00:19:02,250 her heart. 376 00:19:02,350 --> 00:19:07,670 I know she has the experience, and it feels genuine. I completely sympathize 377 00:19:07,670 --> 00:19:14,130 with Dorit. I see a little bit of myself in this broken wing 378 00:19:14,130 --> 00:19:17,630 that she's walking around with. It's so sad. 379 00:19:18,090 --> 00:19:20,210 It's the hardest thing to watch. 380 00:19:22,180 --> 00:19:24,420 I want to be a good friend to everybody. 381 00:19:24,680 --> 00:19:25,459 Of course. 382 00:19:25,460 --> 00:19:28,540 You know? I think Kyle is somebody that I'm like, okay. 383 00:19:28,920 --> 00:19:30,520 I'm like peeling back the onion. 384 00:19:30,760 --> 00:19:31,760 Do you like me? 385 00:19:32,040 --> 00:19:36,480 No. No. You are not a one night only girl. No. So we got to find somebody 386 00:19:36,480 --> 00:19:37,480 substance. 387 00:19:37,740 --> 00:19:38,920 How many times have you been in love? 388 00:19:39,300 --> 00:19:42,480 Have I been in love? How many times have you been in love? Like three. Oh, in 389 00:19:42,480 --> 00:19:43,600 love. Three times? 390 00:19:43,860 --> 00:19:45,580 Three. Yeah. In my life. 391 00:19:46,420 --> 00:19:48,360 How many have you been in love? Four. How many times? 392 00:19:49,140 --> 00:19:50,240 Three. Yeah. 393 00:19:50,750 --> 00:19:51,850 Have you found love again? 394 00:19:52,990 --> 00:19:54,530 Yeah. Okay, yeah. 395 00:19:54,730 --> 00:19:55,770 Well, that's a good feeling. 396 00:19:56,430 --> 00:20:01,510 Yeah, I have love for me, but... Okay, but now you don't. 397 00:20:01,810 --> 00:20:06,950 No, and now I'm just figuring it out. No, now I'm just, I mean, I did, but now 398 00:20:06,950 --> 00:20:10,470 I'm on my own again, so... Okay, okay. 399 00:20:10,770 --> 00:20:14,930 Yeah. Boze is acting like she's never heard anything or seen anything, and 400 00:20:14,930 --> 00:20:18,630 asking me all these questions, and I'm like, okay, Boze. 401 00:20:19,050 --> 00:20:21,290 Was it by choice not to be in love now? 402 00:20:22,470 --> 00:20:24,170 No, it's not. 403 00:20:27,750 --> 00:20:28,750 It's just complicated. 404 00:20:29,370 --> 00:20:32,450 I think it's been really challenging for Kyle to be vulnerable. 405 00:20:32,770 --> 00:20:37,050 You said that you had never before questioned your sexuality, but when 406 00:20:37,050 --> 00:20:41,010 speculation went into overdrive, you would even talk to your daughters about 407 00:20:41,230 --> 00:20:44,770 Just a really proud moment for me as a mom, how my daughters reacted. 408 00:20:45,090 --> 00:20:46,930 They supported you. Oh, my gosh. 409 00:20:49,370 --> 00:20:52,190 And it was a really uncomfortable, hard conversation to have. 410 00:20:52,510 --> 00:20:57,850 But I'm really glad that she's at least sharing a little bit with me now because 411 00:20:57,850 --> 00:21:02,270 I want to be there for her. I want to be able to support in every way that I can 412 00:21:02,270 --> 00:21:03,270 as a friend. 413 00:21:03,450 --> 00:21:07,130 I told you, I'm a girl's girl. I want to, like, be in everybody's business. 414 00:21:07,270 --> 00:21:09,930 You're a lady's lady. Not because I want to be in the business, but because I'm 415 00:21:09,930 --> 00:21:11,750 like, but in order to be friends. 416 00:21:12,650 --> 00:21:15,170 Why don't you ask what you really want to ask? What's that? 417 00:21:16,060 --> 00:21:18,820 What do you think I want to ask? I don't know. I could go Brad. I could go 418 00:21:18,820 --> 00:21:19,820 Angelina. 419 00:21:20,500 --> 00:21:21,640 That's what you want me to say, right? 420 00:21:23,360 --> 00:21:24,360 Is that serious? 421 00:21:24,640 --> 00:21:26,160 That we go Brad or Angelina? 422 00:21:26,400 --> 00:21:30,440 No, I mean, I'm like half joking, but not fully joking. 423 00:21:30,720 --> 00:21:31,720 Okay. I don't know. 424 00:21:31,820 --> 00:21:33,780 Listen, I've learned a lot about myself. 425 00:21:34,020 --> 00:21:39,080 I think gender doesn't matter. I think it's a connection with a... 426 00:21:39,740 --> 00:21:40,740 You know, a soul connection. 427 00:21:40,940 --> 00:21:46,620 I think my biggest worry after Mo and I separated was really that I was going to 428 00:21:46,620 --> 00:21:48,520 maybe be alone one day. 429 00:21:49,860 --> 00:21:55,400 And then to find someone that you have a lot in common with and you can laugh 430 00:21:55,400 --> 00:22:02,300 with and have fun is exciting for me because I proved to myself, oh, you 431 00:22:02,300 --> 00:22:06,460 I actually can meet someone after a marriage of this many years. 432 00:22:06,840 --> 00:22:07,840 I've always been. 433 00:22:08,250 --> 00:22:11,010 attracted to men, you know, like tall, dark, and handsome. 434 00:22:11,270 --> 00:22:12,830 Could that apply to women? 435 00:22:13,770 --> 00:22:17,430 I also felt nervous about why go out with somebody? 436 00:22:17,670 --> 00:22:19,990 Like, what is Mo gonna think about that? 437 00:22:20,290 --> 00:22:21,970 What are the girls gonna think about that? 438 00:22:22,510 --> 00:22:24,990 What is the public going to think about that? 439 00:22:25,810 --> 00:22:29,450 I don't really know, so. Kyle, to be honest with you, I actually don't think 440 00:22:29,450 --> 00:22:32,590 have to know. You have been with Mo for ever. 441 00:22:32,830 --> 00:22:37,160 She's been 30 years. And I think it's okay to now be like, I'm freely being me 442 00:22:37,160 --> 00:22:40,060 and whatever that feels like and whoever I connect with the most. 443 00:22:40,360 --> 00:22:45,580 I've gone through so much in these past few years and it really has changed my 444 00:22:45,580 --> 00:22:49,480 perspective on life and how I want to live. 445 00:22:50,000 --> 00:22:55,440 While I am sad about the relationship, I'm also really grateful. 446 00:22:55,660 --> 00:23:00,820 You get lost in being a wife and a mother and you can kind of forget about 447 00:23:00,820 --> 00:23:01,820 you are. 448 00:23:02,660 --> 00:23:05,360 And I learned a lot about myself. 449 00:23:05,840 --> 00:23:06,840 In that time. 450 00:23:07,700 --> 00:23:10,100 I'm going to go back in my contact list. No. 451 00:23:10,400 --> 00:23:11,399 No. 452 00:23:11,400 --> 00:23:12,299 You know what? 453 00:23:12,300 --> 00:23:14,220 I'm a fake kind of person. 454 00:23:17,100 --> 00:23:18,100 Coming up. 455 00:23:18,180 --> 00:23:22,200 Maybe I'll change my name back to Brown. I dropped my married name to Stella. 456 00:23:22,600 --> 00:23:27,720 It's like my last little. It is. It is. But you're not married to me anymore. 457 00:24:01,090 --> 00:24:02,490 You guys can absolutely. 458 00:24:03,110 --> 00:24:04,110 Oh. 459 00:24:04,730 --> 00:24:08,590 She's right behind you. She's literally right next to you. 460 00:24:09,910 --> 00:24:11,650 Oh, hi. You want to paint a dragon? 461 00:24:11,970 --> 00:24:13,710 No. KK wants to help. 462 00:24:14,170 --> 00:24:15,850 Let's go over here. Here, Mama, help. 463 00:24:16,170 --> 00:24:17,630 You want me to help you get the stuff? 464 00:24:17,850 --> 00:24:20,930 I'll show you. I've never done that activity before. 465 00:24:21,190 --> 00:24:22,670 Hey, KK, look at my side. 466 00:24:22,890 --> 00:24:27,070 What if we both paint on both sides and we work together collaboratively? 467 00:24:35,730 --> 00:24:41,090 Okay, so I come from a pretty humble beginning. We didn't really have a lot. 468 00:24:41,090 --> 00:24:42,690 Friday nights, I used to hang out at Walmart. 469 00:24:43,130 --> 00:24:44,330 We would, like, go walk. 470 00:24:44,690 --> 00:24:45,810 I would walk around Walmart. 471 00:24:46,350 --> 00:24:48,010 You want to go jet skiing with Dada tomorrow? 472 00:24:48,310 --> 00:24:50,290 We're going jet skiing in the morning. Of course, of course. 473 00:24:50,870 --> 00:24:54,190 They will never grasp that the reason I have them in a stroller... 474 00:24:54,520 --> 00:24:57,280 walking around Beverly Hills, like, getting ice cream and going to lunch or 475 00:24:57,280 --> 00:25:01,940 whatever, is because I dreamed this for them. Like, we walk the street that I 476 00:25:01,940 --> 00:25:04,460 watched on Clueless. Like, that, you know? 477 00:25:05,080 --> 00:25:09,420 It looks like I'm going to Disney on Monday. Daddy has a new project at 478 00:25:09,420 --> 00:25:12,000 World. Sunday, you have water polo, correct? 479 00:25:12,480 --> 00:25:15,760 At 11, yeah, I'm going to take Liam. And I'm going to try to go to Pilates that 480 00:25:15,760 --> 00:25:16,760 day during nap time. 481 00:25:17,230 --> 00:25:23,890 Eddie is my partner and fiancé and lover. We met in 2019, and so we've been 482 00:25:23,890 --> 00:25:24,890 together five years. 483 00:25:25,150 --> 00:25:26,430 Eddie is in construction. 484 00:25:26,990 --> 00:25:28,070 Isn't he so cute, though? 485 00:25:29,110 --> 00:25:30,290 He's, like, so good. 486 00:25:30,490 --> 00:25:34,630 Okay, before Daddy proposed, like, I kept having the dream that he got me a 487 00:25:34,630 --> 00:25:36,470 with the Smart and Final logo on it. 488 00:25:38,730 --> 00:25:40,350 Get your Oklahoma ass out of here. 489 00:25:40,610 --> 00:25:44,130 So once Eddie and I were living together, he asked me what I wanted, 490 00:25:44,130 --> 00:25:45,750 priorities were. I was... 491 00:25:46,030 --> 00:25:50,490 About to turn 36, and I remember telling him that there was an expiration date 492 00:25:50,490 --> 00:25:54,030 on my ovaries more than there was an expiration date on my ring finger, and I 493 00:25:54,030 --> 00:25:55,750 thought we should get to making babies. 494 00:25:58,130 --> 00:26:02,450 It did take a while for us to get engaged, but then Daddy crushed it. He 495 00:26:02,450 --> 00:26:05,590 the exact ring that had been on my vision board, literally. 496 00:26:05,830 --> 00:26:10,250 Okay. As a financial empowerment teacher and coach, I'm the embodiment of 497 00:26:10,250 --> 00:26:13,470 everything I teach. I'm my biggest testimonial. 498 00:26:13,850 --> 00:26:18,030 I remember someone who was in one of my courses and they're like, of course, 499 00:26:18,050 --> 00:26:21,090 Amanda wouldn't come through just manifesting a man. Amanda comes through 500 00:26:21,090 --> 00:26:22,450 manifesting a whole ass family. 501 00:26:22,810 --> 00:26:24,230 I'm really thankful you cook. 502 00:26:25,830 --> 00:26:27,030 I hope nobody would eat. 503 00:26:27,490 --> 00:26:28,490 No. 504 00:26:54,810 --> 00:26:58,790 Hello. You are so sweet. Hi, you look so gorgeous. 505 00:26:59,150 --> 00:27:02,110 Hi. You seem so casual. I'm so sorry. You look gorgeous. 506 00:27:02,310 --> 00:27:03,410 Why are you... I'm in jeans. 507 00:27:03,690 --> 00:27:06,670 Okay, we're both in jeans. Yeah, I love your house. Thank you. I'll have a 508 00:27:06,670 --> 00:27:07,670 penchant for White House. 509 00:27:07,770 --> 00:27:11,530 I love White House. Me too. You drink white wine. Yes. So I brought you some 510 00:27:11,530 --> 00:27:14,270 white wine. And I love this. I love Poulet Foussé. Yeah. 511 00:27:14,570 --> 00:27:16,030 Thank you so much. No, you're welcome. 512 00:27:16,230 --> 00:27:18,570 I know Sutton because we have... 513 00:27:19,639 --> 00:27:24,060 like, some mutual friends. So I end up seeing her at different, like, events 514 00:27:24,060 --> 00:27:28,100 lunches and parties when I do that sort of circuit, you know, around the 515 00:27:28,100 --> 00:27:30,000 holidays especially. I always see her at cafes. 516 00:27:30,760 --> 00:27:35,640 But she was always someone who was very, like, friendly and outgoing, invited me 517 00:27:35,640 --> 00:27:38,440 to all these parties and things like that. I just had never gotten close with 518 00:27:38,440 --> 00:27:41,020 her. Wait, I feel like we have so much to discuss. 519 00:27:42,040 --> 00:27:43,040 How's it going? 520 00:27:43,060 --> 00:27:45,960 I mean, can we talk about Bo's house? 521 00:27:46,590 --> 00:27:49,990 I can't believe we just did, like, a speed dating night. Like, I didn't know 522 00:27:49,990 --> 00:27:52,850 that there was a name for this. Did you think any of the guys were cute? 523 00:27:54,650 --> 00:27:58,530 Did you think the guy with the hair, I feel like he was, like, good -looking 524 00:27:58,530 --> 00:27:59,910 cute. Yeah. Right? 525 00:28:00,150 --> 00:28:01,630 Yeah. I felt like not. 526 00:28:04,930 --> 00:28:05,930 It's all relative. 527 00:28:06,850 --> 00:28:11,430 You know, I think I'm still so fresh out of marriage, so I think I'm really 528 00:28:11,430 --> 00:28:13,230 enjoying not being married. Right. 529 00:28:13,710 --> 00:28:14,710 Would you get married? 530 00:28:15,070 --> 00:28:20,410 So, you know, for me it's complicated because I found out a little over a year 531 00:28:20,410 --> 00:28:24,970 ago. My ex -husband, he asked for an annulment with the Catholic Church. 532 00:28:25,550 --> 00:28:28,830 Like within the church, our marriage never existed. 533 00:28:29,470 --> 00:28:35,950 But when I got the letter from the Catholic Church, it came 534 00:28:35,950 --> 00:28:38,550 to Strack Brown. 535 00:28:39,330 --> 00:28:40,910 And Brown is my maiden name. 536 00:28:41,130 --> 00:28:43,290 I'm like, okay. I kept looking at it. 537 00:28:43,610 --> 00:28:44,610 Strack Brown. 538 00:28:45,090 --> 00:28:50,030 And so I thought, well, maybe I'll change my name back to Brown. 539 00:28:50,250 --> 00:28:52,410 I dropped my married name the day I left. 540 00:28:52,770 --> 00:28:53,770 Really? Yeah. 541 00:28:53,850 --> 00:28:56,590 Well, the truth is, I'm not a Strack. 542 00:28:57,690 --> 00:29:00,510 So unstruck yourself. I'm not. You should destruck. 543 00:29:00,710 --> 00:29:03,050 I know, but it's like my last little threat. 544 00:29:03,430 --> 00:29:05,470 It is, but you know what? 545 00:29:06,230 --> 00:29:07,630 You're not married to him anymore. 546 00:29:08,650 --> 00:29:11,050 I always felt that. 547 00:29:11,600 --> 00:29:13,920 I could get Christian back whenever I wanted to. 548 00:29:14,640 --> 00:29:19,600 Sometimes when we talk, I'm like, this little moment, like, did I just win him 549 00:29:19,600 --> 00:29:20,620 back for a second? 550 00:29:21,900 --> 00:29:28,900 I think I realized with this annulment, he is not going to take 551 00:29:28,900 --> 00:29:29,900 me back. 552 00:29:31,320 --> 00:29:32,320 It's over. 553 00:29:34,600 --> 00:29:39,460 Oh, Rachel, why do you want to make me cry? I don't want to make you cry, but I 554 00:29:39,460 --> 00:29:42,480 also want you to... It's like when I think about grandchildren, I'm like... 555 00:29:42,480 --> 00:29:46,780 what? Grandma and Grandpa Strack over there are the good ones with all the 556 00:29:46,780 --> 00:29:47,960 houses all over the world. 557 00:29:48,740 --> 00:29:54,300 I'm just Grandmommy Brown over here with my four dogs and probably 18 cats. 558 00:29:54,560 --> 00:29:58,160 Look, 18 cats is a problem in and of itself, but that's a whole different 559 00:30:00,560 --> 00:30:04,140 I know a lot of women who want to keep their married name, and sometimes it's 560 00:30:04,140 --> 00:30:07,980 status. Sometimes it's because they're not over the marriage and they want to 561 00:30:07,980 --> 00:30:11,500 hold on to it. And I'm not one of them. 562 00:30:11,840 --> 00:30:12,840 Something around is not bad. 563 00:30:13,120 --> 00:30:14,120 What's your middle name? 564 00:30:15,320 --> 00:30:16,320 Oh, no. 565 00:30:16,500 --> 00:30:18,120 What's your middle name? It's Thurman. 566 00:30:19,780 --> 00:30:20,780 Okay. 567 00:30:21,260 --> 00:30:22,260 Harder. 568 00:30:24,680 --> 00:30:26,260 Coming up. 569 00:30:26,600 --> 00:30:29,320 Do you know about your retirement account? No retirement account. 570 00:30:29,770 --> 00:30:31,030 exist as far as I'm concerned. 571 00:30:32,690 --> 00:30:33,690 Money's not invested? 572 00:30:34,070 --> 00:30:36,050 I'm in the unknown. 573 00:30:47,350 --> 00:30:48,390 How did it get flowers? 574 00:30:48,950 --> 00:30:52,490 No, thank you. Another thing we're checking off the list, we need to get 575 00:30:52,490 --> 00:30:53,490 the program. 576 00:30:56,930 --> 00:30:58,010 How are you? 577 00:30:58,440 --> 00:30:59,560 Hi, welcome to Orchid Republic. 578 00:30:59,960 --> 00:31:02,060 We have an appointment for her. 579 00:31:02,360 --> 00:31:05,720 Hi, Margarita. Hi, Margarita. Nice to meet you. 580 00:31:06,040 --> 00:31:10,040 We're trying to get some info and ideas for her wedding flowers. 581 00:31:10,380 --> 00:31:15,280 What is your color scheme and what are the flowers maybe that you're thinking 582 00:31:15,280 --> 00:31:16,280 about? 583 00:31:16,340 --> 00:31:18,100 I don't have a color scheme. 584 00:31:19,520 --> 00:31:25,940 I do want colorful bohemian. I like the wild, unique -looking flowers, you know, 585 00:31:25,960 --> 00:31:27,420 like artichoke. 586 00:31:30,280 --> 00:31:35,140 Alexia's ideas get me a little stressed sometimes because my wedding was more 587 00:31:35,140 --> 00:31:41,080 traditional. Black tie, at a country club, I had 12 bridesmaids, and very 588 00:31:41,080 --> 00:31:43,540 traditional flowers like pink and white roses. 589 00:31:44,020 --> 00:31:47,320 Let's just look in here for a second and see if we can find something. Ooh, look 590 00:31:47,320 --> 00:31:48,320 at that one right there. 591 00:31:48,400 --> 00:31:50,960 That's too many purples. Too many purples, of course. 592 00:31:51,460 --> 00:31:58,240 Alexia, my earth child, free spirit. So I expect this to be very eclectic. 593 00:32:03,080 --> 00:32:03,520 I love 594 00:32:03,520 --> 00:32:13,600 that 595 00:32:13,600 --> 00:32:18,600 she has her own unique style. 596 00:32:20,600 --> 00:32:25,480 Frozen. But it's just trying to get her to nail down the actual look she wants. 597 00:32:25,640 --> 00:32:27,080 So we can just put this to rest. 598 00:32:27,820 --> 00:32:28,820 This looks so pretty. 599 00:32:28,940 --> 00:32:30,100 Look at that. Do you like that? I do. 600 00:32:30,360 --> 00:32:33,340 This matches, like, the bridesmaids' dresses color scheme. 601 00:32:33,700 --> 00:32:34,880 You said there were no bridesmaids. 602 00:32:35,500 --> 00:32:39,840 Mother. I'm still having, like, bridesmaids. I'm just not doing the 603 00:32:40,040 --> 00:32:41,100 And not matching dresses. 604 00:32:41,560 --> 00:32:42,560 I want matching dresses. 605 00:32:42,860 --> 00:32:45,900 You didn't say that. You said colors, not matching dresses. Yeah. That's still 606 00:32:45,900 --> 00:32:49,900 matching. Dad and I are both walking in with you? Yeah. Okay. Of course. 607 00:32:50,380 --> 00:32:51,700 Yeah, you're going to walk me down. 608 00:32:52,000 --> 00:32:53,000 That's so crazy. 609 00:32:53,540 --> 00:32:55,900 It does feel strange now to think that... 610 00:32:56,330 --> 00:33:01,070 My daughter, our daughter, is getting married, and we're not together. 611 00:33:01,950 --> 00:33:06,150 I would like to take the flowers home so that Jake can give the green light. 612 00:33:06,370 --> 00:33:08,250 I always like him to have the final yes. 613 00:33:08,650 --> 00:33:12,290 When I look at Alexia and Jake getting married, I just hope that they have a 614 00:33:12,290 --> 00:33:16,690 long, happy marriage. I hope that they can always trust each other. 615 00:33:16,970 --> 00:33:22,370 I hope that neither one of them ever hurt each other. 616 00:33:28,680 --> 00:33:31,640 I hope that Jake always looks at Alexa the way he looks at her today. 617 00:33:35,580 --> 00:33:40,880 But when you look back one day at your wedding photos, as long as you look back 618 00:33:40,880 --> 00:33:45,520 and you're like, oh, that's exactly what, you know, what I wanted. And, you 619 00:33:45,520 --> 00:33:46,600 know, that's what I wanted at the time. 620 00:33:47,400 --> 00:33:50,500 Mo and me, we were also really happy. 621 00:33:53,380 --> 00:33:56,580 So do I get scared thinking I hope one day they don't. 622 00:33:56,940 --> 00:33:59,360 go through what we're going through. Of course, I think like that. 623 00:34:00,440 --> 00:34:06,720 I'm hoping that they have both learned from Mo and me through all of this and 624 00:34:06,720 --> 00:34:13,659 love and respect each other as much, you know, 30, 40 years from now as they 625 00:34:13,659 --> 00:34:14,659 do today. 626 00:34:14,840 --> 00:34:17,860 I'm telling you, I'm going to have a very different wedding with each of your 627 00:34:17,860 --> 00:34:18,860 sisters. Yeah. 628 00:34:18,940 --> 00:34:20,320 God help me with Sophia's. 629 00:34:27,980 --> 00:34:30,380 Hi, welcome to Gemma. Feed me. 630 00:34:30,620 --> 00:34:33,620 Give me pasta and tell me I'm pretty. Oh, we love that. 631 00:34:33,960 --> 00:34:36,340 Thank you. 632 00:34:36,699 --> 00:34:37,699 Fabulous. 633 00:34:37,840 --> 00:34:41,360 Can I get you a soda with some still or sparkling water? Still would be great. 634 00:34:41,400 --> 00:34:42,400 Sounds good. 635 00:34:43,639 --> 00:34:44,679 Hi, how are you? 636 00:34:44,920 --> 00:34:46,080 Oh, hey, honey, how are you? 637 00:34:46,280 --> 00:34:47,920 I am good. Good, good. 638 00:34:48,139 --> 00:34:50,500 Can I get a soda with something to drink over here? 639 00:34:50,739 --> 00:34:52,239 Can I have a nice tea? Yeah, absolutely. 640 00:34:52,880 --> 00:34:55,780 I'll have the Arnold Palmer, actually. You got it. Thank you. I met Amanda at 641 00:34:55,780 --> 00:34:59,320 Jennifer Tilly's party. Whose jacket is that, by the way? This is my mom. 642 00:34:59,540 --> 00:35:00,540 This is my mom. Okay. 643 00:35:00,760 --> 00:35:04,440 I would knock you down, put you in that pool out there, and take the jacket and 644 00:35:04,440 --> 00:35:07,180 go. Thank you. I'm taking both those things as a compliment. She seems 645 00:35:07,180 --> 00:35:08,720 interesting. She's a businesswoman. 646 00:35:09,080 --> 00:35:12,040 She's getting married. So I want to get to know her better. 647 00:35:12,420 --> 00:35:14,760 Did you ever start in, like, the corporate space? 648 00:35:15,640 --> 00:35:19,580 No. I have no formal business experience. Really? You've always been 649 00:35:19,580 --> 00:35:20,920 entrepreneur. I have a master's in counseling. 650 00:35:21,520 --> 00:35:23,900 I don't know that I had this language at the time, but I was like, let's make 651 00:35:23,900 --> 00:35:25,280 this a personal development brand. 652 00:35:25,740 --> 00:35:27,320 Like, what do I want to be about? 653 00:35:27,540 --> 00:35:30,240 So I started putting out really good content online every day. 654 00:35:30,480 --> 00:35:34,620 I started out as a therapist and life coach and later a business coach. As my 655 00:35:34,620 --> 00:35:39,380 audience grew and I wanted to help more people, I began to create online courses 656 00:35:39,380 --> 00:35:43,560 to help people create both the professional and personal life of their 657 00:35:43,880 --> 00:35:47,600 Oh, interesting. So then I created a digital course called Become a Life 658 00:35:47,840 --> 00:35:50,240 Oh. And then I found that I had a... 659 00:35:50,590 --> 00:35:56,850 a gift, a niche around money, but not around, like I'm not a financial 660 00:35:56,970 --> 00:36:00,650 you know, around like the energetic part of money, the mindset part, the 661 00:36:00,650 --> 00:36:01,970 psychology around it. 662 00:36:02,410 --> 00:36:07,510 Most people who teach on money focus on the practical aspects of money 663 00:36:07,510 --> 00:36:08,510 exclusively. 664 00:36:09,030 --> 00:36:12,670 I think the practical aspects are really important, but I think the foundation 665 00:36:12,670 --> 00:36:17,070 is our relationship with money, which involves the psychological, the 666 00:36:17,250 --> 00:36:18,250 and the energetic. 667 00:36:18,870 --> 00:36:21,870 That's really what I became known for. That's what I wrote my book on. I have a 668 00:36:21,870 --> 00:36:23,050 best -selling book called Riches. 669 00:36:23,350 --> 00:36:24,129 Oh, yeah. 670 00:36:24,130 --> 00:36:26,290 So then I became known as the money queen. 671 00:36:26,550 --> 00:36:28,810 Yes. But I create courses on all kinds of things. 672 00:36:29,170 --> 00:36:31,270 Well, hello, Mrs. Fabulous. Hi. 673 00:36:33,299 --> 00:36:37,680 Love you. You look just so gorgeous. Hi. So good to see you. Good to see you, 674 00:36:37,680 --> 00:36:39,780 too. Here, I'll take your bag. Thank you, thank you, thank you. 675 00:36:40,100 --> 00:36:41,100 I'll take her bag. 676 00:36:41,760 --> 00:36:44,960 That's not what I meant, Doreen. I'll take her bag. So I've been thinking 677 00:36:44,960 --> 00:36:48,380 you a lot since the party. I really have. Sending you love and good vibes 678 00:36:48,380 --> 00:36:51,340 day. I'm praying you're getting some sleep. Oh, me too. I really have. I 679 00:36:51,400 --> 00:36:52,400 Every day you've been on my mind. 680 00:36:52,700 --> 00:36:55,360 Yeah. That's really very sweet. No, I mean it. 681 00:36:55,790 --> 00:36:59,190 My first impression of Amanda, to be honest, I didn't know what to make of 682 00:37:00,890 --> 00:37:07,850 But now, hearing her say how she was thinking about me all weekend and 683 00:37:07,850 --> 00:37:12,970 prayed for me, it's incredibly kind and sweet and caring. 684 00:37:13,629 --> 00:37:16,690 The French fries, because that's the most important thing. Yes, it is. 685 00:37:16,970 --> 00:37:18,030 Let's do the kale salad. 686 00:37:18,370 --> 00:37:21,630 It looks like this calamari is gluten -free. Calamari is gluten -free. Well, 687 00:37:21,670 --> 00:37:23,710 that never happens. I don't have calamari in here. I mean. 688 00:37:23,990 --> 00:37:26,270 They have to. I have to do that. Awesome. I'll get that started. 689 00:37:27,910 --> 00:37:31,010 What do I say? My husband? My ex -husband? I don't know what to say. I 690 00:37:31,010 --> 00:37:32,010 saying estranged. 691 00:37:32,110 --> 00:37:33,490 Okay, yeah, I know. Estranged husband. 692 00:37:33,730 --> 00:37:36,950 That's your official phrase. But in any case, he's very much an alpha male, a 693 00:37:36,950 --> 00:37:39,650 businessman. He built a very big business. 694 00:37:40,300 --> 00:37:47,120 In the UK, and when the world tilted on an access in 2008, he lost his business. 695 00:37:47,320 --> 00:37:50,960 When PK and I married, we did not have a prenup. PK came into the relationship 696 00:37:50,960 --> 00:37:55,580 broke. He had lost his business, and he was really starting from scratch. 697 00:37:56,040 --> 00:37:58,020 So there was nothing to protect. 698 00:37:58,280 --> 00:38:04,260 And when we got married, the finances, he really was handling everything. 699 00:38:04,660 --> 00:38:07,820 And you had kind of delegated it out of your mind. Yeah. You weren't thinking 700 00:38:07,820 --> 00:38:09,160 about how the finances worked. No. 701 00:38:09,790 --> 00:38:14,190 We had a business manager. I filed for divorce a couple of months ago. There 702 00:38:14,190 --> 00:38:17,550 wasn't, like, a handoff. There wasn't, like, an agreement. 703 00:38:17,950 --> 00:38:18,950 There was nothing. 704 00:38:19,670 --> 00:38:23,530 I just would find out that he's not going to pay this anymore. 705 00:38:33,110 --> 00:38:35,930 I filed for divorce. 706 00:38:36,440 --> 00:38:40,600 A couple of months ago, there wasn't like a handoff. There wasn't like an 707 00:38:40,600 --> 00:38:42,300 agreement. It was nothing. 708 00:38:43,160 --> 00:38:47,020 I just would find out that he's not going to pay this anymore. 709 00:38:49,080 --> 00:38:52,900 Wait, wait, wait. So you're living in the house, the family home. Yes. And 710 00:38:52,900 --> 00:38:56,380 trying to not pay the mortgage. Like, for example, he's currently paying the 711 00:38:56,380 --> 00:38:59,040 mortgage. He's just randomly deciding you're on your own. 712 00:38:59,260 --> 00:39:01,960 Absolutely. He's thinking she's making X. 713 00:39:02,380 --> 00:39:03,380 No. 714 00:39:04,460 --> 00:39:05,900 For the last 14 years. 715 00:39:06,280 --> 00:39:10,380 PK's been paying the lion's share of our family outgoings. When we separated, he 716 00:39:10,380 --> 00:39:12,140 said that the finances would stay the same. 717 00:39:12,560 --> 00:39:17,020 She's now having more financial responsibility than in the past. 718 00:39:17,240 --> 00:39:18,240 Right, 719 00:39:18,580 --> 00:39:22,100 but it hasn't been mutually decided upon. No. A month later, I got an email 720 00:39:22,100 --> 00:39:25,120 saying that he decided he's no longer going to do that. 721 00:39:25,500 --> 00:39:29,560 And I was like, how can you change this all of a sudden? And his answer was, I 722 00:39:29,560 --> 00:39:31,000 only agreed to that for one month. 723 00:39:33,100 --> 00:39:36,680 For you to have a fair position in mediation, you have to know what you're 724 00:39:36,680 --> 00:39:38,660 working with. Do you know about your retirement account? 725 00:39:38,900 --> 00:39:41,660 No retirement account exists as far as I'm concerned. 726 00:39:43,360 --> 00:39:44,920 And money's not invested? 727 00:39:45,280 --> 00:39:50,800 I have yet to discover everything, and I can tell you I'm in the unknown. 728 00:39:51,540 --> 00:39:56,780 When Peter died, I was left with the financial responsibility of raising Leo 729 00:39:56,780 --> 00:39:57,759 my own. 730 00:39:57,760 --> 00:40:01,660 Dorit is in a similar position. She needs to understand where the money is. 731 00:40:01,920 --> 00:40:04,780 I'm hoping, I'm saying that there's been many invested. Like these are things 732 00:40:04,780 --> 00:40:06,120 that people live off of. 733 00:40:06,640 --> 00:40:07,980 How do you get here? 734 00:40:08,220 --> 00:40:13,680 Like you have to turn a blind eye to your bank account for a long time to be 735 00:40:13,680 --> 00:40:16,220 a state where you have no idea if you have retirement. 736 00:40:16,500 --> 00:40:19,940 I mean, this is like basic information every woman should know about their 737 00:40:19,940 --> 00:40:20,940 financial reality. 738 00:40:21,660 --> 00:40:24,100 My husband's a complex person. 739 00:40:24,460 --> 00:40:28,780 He's complex. He's not a bad guy, like a terrible bad guy, vicious. 740 00:40:29,900 --> 00:40:31,600 Does he have some bad behavior? 741 00:40:32,080 --> 00:40:37,620 Absolutely. And then you throw drinking into the mix, and that, for someone of 742 00:40:37,620 --> 00:40:40,540 his character, it gets even more complicated. Right. 743 00:40:40,860 --> 00:40:44,140 Not only that, but my name is on everything. 744 00:40:46,040 --> 00:40:49,600 When I found out our house was in pre -courclosure, I wasn't just worried 745 00:40:49,600 --> 00:40:50,600 losing the house. 746 00:40:50,660 --> 00:40:55,380 The house is in my name. So if TK stops paying for something or doesn't make 747 00:40:55,380 --> 00:40:58,300 payments, it's me that suffers the consequences. 748 00:41:00,170 --> 00:41:03,530 I can't do anything right now. My hands are tied behind my back. So you need the 749 00:41:03,530 --> 00:41:07,310 clean break to start building everything back up. Exactly. What can Dorit do, 750 00:41:07,490 --> 00:41:11,370 like proactively, knowing like all of these unknowns? 751 00:41:11,630 --> 00:41:15,010 Is there anything that she can proactively do to protect herself? 752 00:41:15,770 --> 00:41:17,110 Or to, like, help the situation. 753 00:41:17,530 --> 00:41:20,850 I think you have to decide what you want, what you're creating, and, like, 754 00:41:20,850 --> 00:41:23,550 you're going to be. Like, I know that's, like, a big overarching question. But 755 00:41:23,550 --> 00:41:26,050 who do you want to be as a provider? Who do you want to be as a woman who earns? 756 00:41:26,170 --> 00:41:28,710 Who do you want to be as a woman who has been screwed her and now she has to 757 00:41:28,710 --> 00:41:32,210 fill in the gaps? Like, who are you going to be no matter what he does? 758 00:41:32,270 --> 00:41:34,090 You know what I'm saying? Totally. Because you're going to have to keep 759 00:41:34,090 --> 00:41:36,250 mind right to go through this battle with this man. Oh, yeah. 760 00:41:37,310 --> 00:41:39,770 What is this frou -frou mess we're talking about? 761 00:41:40,430 --> 00:41:42,710 I was looking for one plus one equals two. 762 00:41:43,690 --> 00:41:47,390 Intention. What kind of provider does she want to be? What does that even 763 00:41:47,770 --> 00:41:49,770 This is not financial advice. 764 00:41:50,410 --> 00:41:52,030 The math ain't math -ing. 765 00:41:52,290 --> 00:41:58,250 The road we're going, there are no winners. It is going to get very, very 766 00:42:02,990 --> 00:42:05,730 Next on The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills. 767 00:42:06,110 --> 00:42:10,810 Erica said, boring. I got her in that moment. Don't think for two seconds that 768 00:42:10,810 --> 00:42:11,890 you got her in that moment. 769 00:42:14,290 --> 00:42:16,250 Just go now. Here we come. 770 00:42:16,850 --> 00:42:17,850 Let's go, baby. 771 00:42:18,070 --> 00:42:20,750 This is hot girl summer, Rachel. See? I don't know if I like it. 772 00:42:21,230 --> 00:42:23,970 What? Not the fact that Nisa with no clothes. 773 00:42:24,330 --> 00:42:29,330 Did you see that picture of Eric in the tabloids with that guy? Did he approach 774 00:42:29,330 --> 00:42:30,330 you?